you have total control over

If you hold it clearly enough in mind; if you physically anticipate it, steadily, day by day, Romulo, there are no earthly hands, nor heavenly for that matter, that can halt its subsequent manifestation into your life.
Just be really, really sure you want it.
The Universe
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In one word, Romulo, "EXPECTATION" is the sole difference between "have" and "have not." And this, you have total control over.

Buddy, you are telling me something that brings back a big lesson in my life. I went to Boston, this last time telling Emma and Eddie that I was going with not expectations. Then that Friday night my dear friend Eddie made me realize that I was saying one thing when in reality there was at some level expectations on my part of meeting with this special person in town. My dear friend Eddie was a great support for me that weekend. It is hard not to love him when that is what he gives to me and every one I seem around him.

Good that I had expectation them. Because meeting this person was even better than the first time we met. This time we had more time to talk and get to know one another. I am looking forward to my next 2 trips to Boston. Nor only because I get one more chance to be with a good friend like Eddie but get to be with new person that some how is starting to make a presents in my life.

Thanks buddy - I like your message a lot.