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-----Original Message-----From: Ralph Marston [mailto:RMarston@greatday.com] Sent: Thursday, February 08, 2007 2:18 AMTo: romulo_rios@hotmail.comSubject: The Daily Motivator - A positive light 070208
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Thursday, February 8, 2007
A positive light
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Don't you just love all those crazy little quarks, atoms, and molecules, Romulo, that unceasingly manifest themselves into whatever you're thinking, no matter how big and daunting, small and simple, or rich and gorgeous?
Just look at 'em all right now.
The Universe
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Oh my, did "rich and gorgeous" speak to you, Romulo?
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Buddy, I have not doubts that you were communicating to me today. I do apologize for not being available. You know the reasons why I spend the whole day sleep. I know now that it was best to miss the second interview with that potential employers. I got your inspirational message late last night when I was telling mu neightbor about to change her perception of loosing that free lance position this week. Hey with this message she should know by now that what I told her was right and that we all should look into this incredible power of creation that we enheritage just beacuse we were made at your on image.
I will follow my own advice. Thanks for this message and for remind me once again to follow my own advice. Now, I am off to get somethi quick to eat and keep working on that inspiration. hanks buddy. The quote reminds me once again not to bother to go the extreme in making someone to accept me. Maybe that is thereason why I did not strik back. Because deep down I knew that I was not being I was being shown an important lesson for me to learn once and for all from a source that I have put up high in my life which made it a bigger priority in my life to learn it this time once and for all. Not matter why I do and the one I hurt when I go to work on this obsession for someone to love or accept me. Comming from someone I put up high made the point more clear. That we are all different. That it is a waist of spirit to change into someone that this person accepts. That putting someone up high is a mistake because it was clear simple the way you show me like you have done it in the past that she is not ahead of of me on this road we are traveling. Actually, with her actions she was showing me that she still have a long way to get to this point that I find myself today. Once again thanks for all.
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Friday, February 09, 2007
Wednesday, February 07, 2007
The Universe - Feb 7, 2007
When otherwise most challenging, Romulo, love can begin with sympathy.
Right after dessert.
Let's do it, The Universe
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Wasn't "life" a great idea, Romulo?
Buddy, what you are bringing me today is nnot an easy thing to come up with an answer less along commit o try it.
I am starting thinking that to give your love uncondictional is not that hard. What seems to be the things I have less resistance to it is what labels and along with that role and respossibilities that people will expect you to follow just beacsue you are giving love.
I think is like that stament most people have used once or twice are the very list around xmas 'It is better or easier t give rhan to receive" The great majority can not lie that when they use that statement that they were not a littl.e bit overconcern for the fact that they had not presents or did not like what they weregiving.
Then again, I will never forget that stattement from a good friend in which the moment he realize he can depart from s0me thing or someone or give a away a winderful present - that is the time he know tht it truely beloing to him - Because the fact of giving it to someone is transpassing possesion to someone else.
Then again, I have often engage in estimulating conversations with this friend in which I tell him that foor the acceptance or love of somene we tend to put our self scond and worst yet at risk.
But you are right, life is wonderful - With thegood and the bad and would not have it any other day. Now, I will continue to give mylocve.
And when it cfomse to surprises. Just let them be surprises. I have also realize that one experiemce better thios life time when there is not expectations of any kind. Like running into that person that night in Pollo Tropical and saw the changes that I have been npticing on him. I could not stop thinking of that persona after that. I even romantize about it. But I am content in tjat deparment. Now my people in SOBE got a way of exiting a 9 year relationship and eneter on a new one without not trouble. Then again I am not judging any one. That friend deserve all the happines coming his way. I just always surprise on how people seem to have that switch that they turn on off.
Thanks buddy
Right after dessert.
Let's do it, The Universe
Thoughts become things... choose the good ones! ® © www.tut.com ®
Wasn't "life" a great idea, Romulo?
Buddy, what you are bringing me today is nnot an easy thing to come up with an answer less along commit o try it.
I am starting thinking that to give your love uncondictional is not that hard. What seems to be the things I have less resistance to it is what labels and along with that role and respossibilities that people will expect you to follow just beacsue you are giving love.
I think is like that stament most people have used once or twice are the very list around xmas 'It is better or easier t give rhan to receive" The great majority can not lie that when they use that statement that they were not a littl.e bit overconcern for the fact that they had not presents or did not like what they weregiving.
Then again, I will never forget that stattement from a good friend in which the moment he realize he can depart from s0me thing or someone or give a away a winderful present - that is the time he know tht it truely beloing to him - Because the fact of giving it to someone is transpassing possesion to someone else.
Then again, I have often engage in estimulating conversations with this friend in which I tell him that foor the acceptance or love of somene we tend to put our self scond and worst yet at risk.
But you are right, life is wonderful - With thegood and the bad and would not have it any other day. Now, I will continue to give mylocve.
And when it cfomse to surprises. Just let them be surprises. I have also realize that one experiemce better thios life time when there is not expectations of any kind. Like running into that person that night in Pollo Tropical and saw the changes that I have been npticing on him. I could not stop thinking of that persona after that. I even romantize about it. But I am content in tjat deparment. Now my people in SOBE got a way of exiting a 9 year relationship and eneter on a new one without not trouble. Then again I am not judging any one. That friend deserve all the happines coming his way. I just always surprise on how people seem to have that switch that they turn on off.
Thanks buddy
Monday, February 05, 2007
The Universe - Feb 5th 2006
Not everyone's ready to open the throttle up all the way. Put the pedal to the metal. Skinny-dip into the sea of infinite possibilities.
And that's perfectly all right, Romulo. Because there's nothing you're "supposed" to be doing with your life. No one is judged based upon how much turf they cover, how many mountains they climb, or how many deals they close. And because even one small drop from the sea, is as infinite as all of the oceans combined.
Whatever your heart desires - The Universe
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Kind of perked up when you read skinny-dip, didn't you, Romulo?
Buddy, you could not be any more right about this statement. Even if they judge me which they have done it, plenty of time in the last 2 months or so. I do not see any good on them waisting their energy on it. In any way, they judgeging me is a proof that I was never accepted by them which at this point does not matter because I am not begging for love or acceptance any more. This is who I am with the good and the bad, with the intesity and the complex, with the talking and the contracdictions.
Thanks buddy for this message
And that's perfectly all right, Romulo. Because there's nothing you're "supposed" to be doing with your life. No one is judged based upon how much turf they cover, how many mountains they climb, or how many deals they close. And because even one small drop from the sea, is as infinite as all of the oceans combined.
Whatever your heart desires - The Universe
Thoughts become things... choose the good ones! ® © www.tut.com ®
Kind of perked up when you read skinny-dip, didn't you, Romulo?
Buddy, you could not be any more right about this statement. Even if they judge me which they have done it, plenty of time in the last 2 months or so. I do not see any good on them waisting their energy on it. In any way, they judgeging me is a proof that I was never accepted by them which at this point does not matter because I am not begging for love or acceptance any more. This is who I am with the good and the bad, with the intesity and the complex, with the talking and the contracdictions.
Thanks buddy for this message
Thursday, February 01, 2007
Jan 31, 2007 - The Universe
Talk about two ships silently passing in the night...
Romulo, even your own path crossing with a complete stranger, on a sidewalk, down the hall, or at Starbucks, on this holiest of adventures, amongst the billions now alive and the zillions who could have been, means so much more than most can even comprehend. Suffice it to say, however, that in such moments, these fellow adventurers are closer to you than a brother or a sister, no matter who they are.
You are the "King" of the world - The Universe
Thoughts become things... choose the good ones! ® © www.tut.com ®
You were talking about ships, right, Romulo?
Buddy, it took me a while to answer to you but you are touching a subject that is complex as well as sensitive.
I will say complex becuase in time and space all is relative to something. I came to the realization that every relationship is a test on how I am realating to other people. I do not regret any longger when a relationship fails or for some reason or other it stops. I try always to see what that relationship brought to my life in terms for learning experiences. If for some reason, it does not work any more and we stop communication or relationship does not go any furthere. It would only means that we learned what we were supposed to and went on with our life.
It is true when I said I learned more about myself through the interaction with others. I have also learned that most of the time when I learned something important through the eyes of one person. Some how something I end p taking a stand and the relationship stops. I have noticed that when I started praising what significants the presences of this other person in my live means, I turned to elevate him or her to a place where idols are kept. Somehow that is when things start going wrong and we stop going forward with the relationship. I am specualting that the reasons for this might be the level of expectaions that my comments might be bring to the other person which has as direct result the obligation to accept me despit the fact that is clear that my behaviour is not of the other person liking.
Buddy, the only thing I can tell you is that I learning some how to accept this. My decision to stay away is clear because is based on the fact that the other person can not stand me at times. I do not feel anger, I do not feel rejected or hurt. I learned to see this kind of situation for what it is a learning exprience. Therefore, I will not hurt back when the situation of ending the relationship turns to a situation in which is clear the abuse. Come to think of it, it has happened before. In those situations, I learned to thanks you for putting this people in my path and I always make references to what I learned from them and sherist that always.
So now you know, I was not talking about ships. I was talking to the many angels you have put in my path for which I thank them for their contribution to my life. In some case, it might be then the ones who do not accept me and in others is me the one who can not accept them. But with me not accepting them, it does not mean I want them to change for me. On the contrary, everyone should be happy and proud of who they are. I just do not share the same value system or see my reality in the same way.
I know, it is an act of love to tell who vitimizes us what he or she have done to us. But in my case, I am expecting them to analyze things the way I am doing now. It should be easy, I do not see why some one would not do it. Just the fact tthat I did not fight back should be a reason. I am not mad and that is not my reason for my distance or why I decided to stay in here in case someone wanted to communicate with me. I know I was not accepted and in this particular case my praising delayed the inavetable. I do apologize for it because now I see how much pressure that must have been for someone delayed stop talking to me for so long.
Remember in time and space all is relative to something we already have experience. If we do not see relationship as the opportunity to learn how we relate to others and see the ending of a relationship from the otherside, how the other person relates to us. We are just experiencing only half of what we are supposed to.
I do end this buddy with what I told my dear friend Mark when he called to say good bye "I thanked you for crossing path with me. Your presences in my life had a significant conrtibution to it. I know we will meet again. This is not a good bye." Somehow after I talked to him. I felt I did not do enough for a this good friend. He gave me Tuesdays with Morris. That is how I felt that week until you gave me the wonderful present in which I got the chance to really express to him how much he meant to me. Thanks for those last weeks you gave us. Please tell him I love him and I would be always gratefull for him crossing path with me.
Romulo, even your own path crossing with a complete stranger, on a sidewalk, down the hall, or at Starbucks, on this holiest of adventures, amongst the billions now alive and the zillions who could have been, means so much more than most can even comprehend. Suffice it to say, however, that in such moments, these fellow adventurers are closer to you than a brother or a sister, no matter who they are.
You are the "King" of the world - The Universe
Thoughts become things... choose the good ones! ® © www.tut.com ®
You were talking about ships, right, Romulo?
Buddy, it took me a while to answer to you but you are touching a subject that is complex as well as sensitive.
I will say complex becuase in time and space all is relative to something. I came to the realization that every relationship is a test on how I am realating to other people. I do not regret any longger when a relationship fails or for some reason or other it stops. I try always to see what that relationship brought to my life in terms for learning experiences. If for some reason, it does not work any more and we stop communication or relationship does not go any furthere. It would only means that we learned what we were supposed to and went on with our life.
It is true when I said I learned more about myself through the interaction with others. I have also learned that most of the time when I learned something important through the eyes of one person. Some how something I end p taking a stand and the relationship stops. I have noticed that when I started praising what significants the presences of this other person in my live means, I turned to elevate him or her to a place where idols are kept. Somehow that is when things start going wrong and we stop going forward with the relationship. I am specualting that the reasons for this might be the level of expectaions that my comments might be bring to the other person which has as direct result the obligation to accept me despit the fact that is clear that my behaviour is not of the other person liking.
Buddy, the only thing I can tell you is that I learning some how to accept this. My decision to stay away is clear because is based on the fact that the other person can not stand me at times. I do not feel anger, I do not feel rejected or hurt. I learned to see this kind of situation for what it is a learning exprience. Therefore, I will not hurt back when the situation of ending the relationship turns to a situation in which is clear the abuse. Come to think of it, it has happened before. In those situations, I learned to thanks you for putting this people in my path and I always make references to what I learned from them and sherist that always.
So now you know, I was not talking about ships. I was talking to the many angels you have put in my path for which I thank them for their contribution to my life. In some case, it might be then the ones who do not accept me and in others is me the one who can not accept them. But with me not accepting them, it does not mean I want them to change for me. On the contrary, everyone should be happy and proud of who they are. I just do not share the same value system or see my reality in the same way.
I know, it is an act of love to tell who vitimizes us what he or she have done to us. But in my case, I am expecting them to analyze things the way I am doing now. It should be easy, I do not see why some one would not do it. Just the fact tthat I did not fight back should be a reason. I am not mad and that is not my reason for my distance or why I decided to stay in here in case someone wanted to communicate with me. I know I was not accepted and in this particular case my praising delayed the inavetable. I do apologize for it because now I see how much pressure that must have been for someone delayed stop talking to me for so long.
Remember in time and space all is relative to something we already have experience. If we do not see relationship as the opportunity to learn how we relate to others and see the ending of a relationship from the otherside, how the other person relates to us. We are just experiencing only half of what we are supposed to.
I do end this buddy with what I told my dear friend Mark when he called to say good bye "I thanked you for crossing path with me. Your presences in my life had a significant conrtibution to it. I know we will meet again. This is not a good bye." Somehow after I talked to him. I felt I did not do enough for a this good friend. He gave me Tuesdays with Morris. That is how I felt that week until you gave me the wonderful present in which I got the chance to really express to him how much he meant to me. Thanks for those last weeks you gave us. Please tell him I love him and I would be always gratefull for him crossing path with me.
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