Especially, when who you want to be, Romulo, is happy, and hugable

You know buddy - Your message this morning could not be more appropriate - There are times that I notice I am not might be this hugable guy - I was told it was my intesity - The people that hold dear seems to be able to handle me in those situation - This are people for who I have incredble respect and admiration because I can honestly say they are successful in every aspect of life.

Now I notice that some can not even talk to me in the phone because of such intensity - I hold nothing against them - I realize I am not a gold coin for every one to love me - But I will be making the same mistake I made years ago in my first relationship if I allow those kind of person to bring down to their level - They are intitle to where ever they want to be and feel confortable at it. My choice is the outside my confort zone always seeking the challenge like the people I admire and are able to be in my presences.

Thanks buddy - this helps