The Universe - Jan 16th 2007

Anger, Romulo, is a fabulous reminder that there are still a few things being misunderstood.
In all cases.
The Universe

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Same for impatience, despair, broken hearts, and wearing high-waters, Romulo.

Good that you are bringing this topic buddy. I can tell you that I have been in situation in which anyone else would have shown sign of anger. I remember that in one situation I was asked if I was still angry. I remember my answers as it was yesterday. I said that I have a lot of things in my mind. That I needed to go back home and work on me. I was not angry. I was hurt but most important I was admiting my responsibility. It takes two to tango. Relationships is how we relate to onether. We do no live in the world of absolute like you do. We live in the world of the relative. Time and space is in relationship with something we can relate to. So if someone had a problem with me, it would be naive even hypocrite to think that I have nothing to do with it.

So I look at the whole thing like a lesson I need to learn. Because in the relative world of time and space, I am responsible for my half of any relationship. I do not get angry. I get quiet. Maybe because I am hurt. But the main reason is because I am analyzing and going over the events so I can learn my lesson.

I know there is not the perfect relationship out there. But I do not get in relationship to abuse or make people angry with me or wanted to fight with me. I want my crossing through someone life to be a positive experience. the last thing in my mind is to cause pain or disconfort to any one.

This is me trying to help myslef and help someone who is actually crying infront of me. Thanks buddy.